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About Robert Solley

Robert believes the keystone to successful relationships is being able to know your own thoughts, feelings and behavior at multiple levels, while also being able to understand, empathize with and reflect your partner’s thoughts, feelings, and behavior. In this way he helps you “attune” to each other and begin to heal the emotional stumbling blocks that are keeping you stuck or disconnected as a couple.

Entitlements in Relationship with Russell Lemle Ph.D. and Robert Solley Ph.D.

Here is what you will learn In this video: What entitlements are. Why they are important and tricky to navigate. How they play out in your relationship. How entitlements can get in the way of connection. How to communicate beyond entitlement and move towards connection. Access the [...]

Blame Will Blow Up Your Relationship

Blame is a Pseudo-Balm Bomb WTF?!?! Ok let’s break it down. What do I mean by a “pseudo-balm”? Let’s start with remembering how painful it can be to accept fault or responsibility. For most of us it’s very uncomfortable to feel the shame, sadness, and helplessness that comes with having done something that makes life difficult for another person or [...]